How to spend the wedding night: traditions. The first wedding night for Muslims
The first wedding night is an exciting event for twolovers. In the whole world, there are a lot of wedding traditions concerning the first joint night of the newlyweds. They fully reflect the characteristics of the culture of different peoples.
It does not matter if you had sexual intimacy beforemarriage or it will happen for the first time. The most important thing is that this event brought only pleasant emotions and became unforgettable. It is worthwhile in advance to discuss with the future spouse, what would he like to see your first night together, share your thoughts and choose your best idea, in your opinion.
How to spend the wedding night on Russian traditions
Many years ago, when the newlyweds remainedalone after the wedding feast, they performed several traditional rituals. It was believed that due to this the young family will live in prosperity and will give birth to healthy offspring. On their first night together, the young were supposed to eat a chicken, which served as a symbol of great fertility, and bread, which was a symbol of prosperity. Patriarchal Russia adhered to the traditions by which the spouse had to obey her husband religiously. Therefore, on the wedding night after the wedding, the young woman, as a sign of her obedience, had to remove her boots from the groom, and ask permission to go to bed with him. By tradition, this sacrament was held in the bathhouse, young men made a bed of logs, which symbolized a large number of offspring.
Over the years, these rules have lost their validity andModern society prefers more comfortable conditions. Today's lovers go on board the beautiful ship, rent a luxurious hotel room, retire to a country cottage or a new apartment. Everything depends on their capabilities and the flight of imagination. A short trip or just a change of scenery will be beneficial and will make you feel that family life has begun.
What to do on the wedding night
First of all, the newlyweds need to calculatetheir strength. In the event that to the final part of the solemn feast, they will only think about how soon it would all end to fall asleep, nor on a wedding night can not go. In order not to fall from the feet of fatigue, you need to try not to take on all the worries about the organization of the event. Pleasant troubles, such as choosing a dress, buying gifts for each other and nice little things that will serve as a decoration for the holiday, do not count. Just before the solemn day it is important to have a good night's sleep.
It is necessary in advance to take care of some things that will bring a note of romanticism in the first joint night of a young couple:
beautiful linens, the ideal material for special occasions is silk
pleasant music for relaxation
bedroom decoration with small statuettes symbolizing love, candles and rose petals
drinks, fruits and light snacks
Another important detail of the wedding night isaromas. A few drops of your favorite incense, a gentle aroma of aroma lamp or a subtle aroma of an aphrodisiac will give the desired color to this long-awaited sacrament. In the traditional concept this should be the first sexual contact of young spouses, but today it is in most cases a conditional term. It does not matter whether the young couple had intimate relations before the marriage or they even managed to live for some time in a civil marriage, any doubt the first joint night as a legal spouse lays the foundations of the marriage union.
How is the first wedding night for Muslims
In Islam, intimacy is profoundspiritual sense. During the wedding night, young people must observe certain rites. When the husband and wife are alone, he puts his hand on her head, says kind words, and ends his speech, saying: "In the name of Allah." Then the couple must perform two traditional prayers. At the end of the rite, the bridegroom asks God for blessing for a happy family life, and if their union does break up, so that he and his wife will maintain good relations.
During the Muslim wedding night, the youngmust present to his chosen one a lot of different drinks and exquisite oriental sweets. Compulsory are honey and milk. The first joint night for Muslims involves not only sexual contact, but also compulsory communication. According to the rules the girl should behave modestly and constrained, and the young man needs to be with the wife tender and patient. Also, the Quran categorically prohibits obscene physical intimacy.
During sexual contact with the spouse, the wife does notshould be cold and indifferent. Under no circumstances should a legitimate spouse be repelled, this can subsequently harm family well-being. In the morning, after the wedding night, Muslims perform the ritual of ablution. Then the newlyweds can start eating. On the second day after the wedding, a festive feast continues, to which a close family is invited.
A married couple who enjoys sexualrelations, adhering to the prescribed religious rules, receives not only physical pleasure, but also a reward - the Sawab. Love is the foundation of family relationships. The Qur'an teaches men and women to be merciful, to learn to forgive and respect each other, only in this way one can find happiness.
