One in the New Year: what to do
New Year is considered a family holiday, howeverSometimes circumstances develop so that we can not spend it in a circle of relatives, friends and friends. Meet the New Year alone - not the most tempting prospect. However, if you stayed one in the New Year, this does not mean that you need to completely abandon the celebration. The reasons for loneliness in the New Year may be different: from the banal accumulated fatigue, when notit would be desirable not that New year to meet - in general it would be desirable nothing, before parting with the liked person. New Year's mood at zero - that is, is completely absent - and most of all I want to wrap myself in a blanket on December 31 and go to bed at ten o'clock in the evening. However, is it worth to drop your hands and deprive yourself of the holiday?
To begin with it is necessary to make it clear: the fact that you celebrate New Year alone, does not mean that you are a failure. You are not guilty of anything, just the circumstances. And you can not let these circumstances become stronger than us. Can not you think of what to do on New Year's Eve?
Its loneliness should be perceived as a New Year's gift from fate: now most people live in such furiousThe pace that they do not have time for themselves. Find your positive side in that you will be alone in the New Year: you will not need to cook for a whole crowd of people, do not have to compromise, choosing what to see or where to go. You can devote yourself all night - to do what you want without being interested in anyone's opinion on this matter.
So, what if you are alone in the New Year? How to give yourself a festive mood? You have two basic options - to stay at homeand enjoy loneliness, instead of suffering from it, or go where there will be many people. The first option is suitable in cases where by the end of the year you are tired and not averse to devote a little time to yourself.
What can I do at home on New Year's Eve? Pamper yourself - do what you wanted for a long time,but there was no time or opportunity. Prepare your favorite dish or order food from your favorite restaurant. Arrange a movie marathon and see all the films you've wanted to see for a long time (or revise all your favorite movies). As an option - "swallow" for the night season-another favorite series. You can also arrange a home session of SPA-procedures.
If you have friends in other cities, you can Meet the New Year with them in skype, creating a shared chat. So what if you met some of them on the Internet and never saw them? This will not prevent you from exchanging toasts and wishes. You can arrange a joint viewing of some Christmas film, including it simultaneously and exchanging comments during the course of viewing. And if you live in different time zones, you have a great opportunity to celebrate the New Year several times.
However, if you do not want to stay home alone inNew Year, you can go to where there will be many people unfamiliar with each other, for example, in a club or a city square. Let the festive atmosphere capture yourself and have fun with the soul, And when the clock strikes 12, be sure to hug the person who is near, even if you see it in the first (and most likely in the last - though who knows) once in a lifetime.
What should not you do if you meet the New Year alone? Do not need to revel in self-pity, calland crying in the tube, writing plaintive posts in the blog and statuses in social networks, trying to sink your grief in alcohol and doing things that you can later regret (for example, having sex with the very handsome at the bar without protection or smash the house, cracking down on robbers like the hero of Macaulay Culkin in the film "Alone at home").
Maybe you do not believe in the sign "How to celebrate the New Year, so you'll spend it," but you should not take risks. In the coming year it is better to enter with a good mood and a positive attitude, and not with a hangover and self-loathing.
