How to invite a girl on a date?

Why do guys do not like to invite girls toGoodbye? The answer is simple: of course, because of fear of refusal. You will not think up anything worse than to hear a polite or even disparaging "no" in response to a gullibly open heart and soul. But in fact, such fear is not so often has a real reason, and a girl who wants to be invited on a date, perhaps, herself has long waited for the first step. Hence it's time to pull yourself together and do some preparatory work before inviting a girl to a date.

So, step one. At first you need to think about the idea of ​​a date. If you just call a girl you know andinvite her to "go somewhere," while not offering specific ideas about the venue and the "script" of the meeting, then, consider such an attempt is doomed to failure. It is important to choose at least two or three interesting places in advance, where you can invite a girl to a date.

If you know the girl pretty well, thenYou can pick up places for a date individually: you should already know what she prefers to do in her spare time. If, however, acquaintance with the girl you invite is still "hapless" for you, then, most likely, you will not lose by choosing a "classic" place for a date: cinema, cafe, restaurant, theater, exhibition center, etc.

Step two is choice of time and direct meeting place. From this step, as practice shows,much. It is necessary to think over at what time the girl most likely could be free: in the evening hours or in the afternoon. The meeting place will depend on how it was decided to hold a meeting. Always a winning option - a crowded place, well known to you, and the girl you invite. As a guide, you can choose some famous architectural monument, sculpture.

Interestingly, many guys are not in a hurry to invite girls to date, because they fear that it will cost them too expensive. In fact, to lead a girl on a date ina restaurant or a cafe is not the only way to spend a date. For example, it is very interesting, fun, romantic and, most importantly, low-budget it is possible to hold a meeting on the street. However, much depends on the weather and your mood.

So, to walk with the girl along and along the studied central street of the city in the frost, in the snow or in the rain - this, of course, is not the most successful choice. But if in warm, dry weather to get out with a girl for a forest walk or go together to discover the riddles of the nativecity, then such a date already claims success. Of course, such an idea needs to be coordinated with the invited girl, so that it does not turn out that she will have to walk on the stiletto on the forest paths.

The third step is, actually, the invitation of a girl. To invite a girl on a date, you cancall her, write an SMS or a message on the social network, tell her about a date in person. Of course, the latter option is most suitable, but if there is no opportunity to meet, then the choice is better to stop on a phone call.

If you decide to invite a girl on a date,When you call her, try not to delay the phone conversation. It is enough to say hello at the beginning of the conversation, ask how it works, find out if it is available soon. Then you can immediately go to the invitation. At this stage of the telephone conversation it is very important to use the "right" phrases.

To the question: "Would you like to come with me ...? ", The girl, most likely, will want to answer:" I did not want to. " Therefore, such formulations should not be used, and it is better to formulate your question in the affirmative: "Would you like to go with me ...?". You can also start an invitation to a date with such phrases, as "One of these days at a cinema show an excellent film. Can we go to this movie together? "Or" Let's go to a restaurant / cafe, they say, there is a very good kitchen. When are you free?".

Invite a girl on a date is best 1-3 days before the expected date of the meeting. This will give her time, in case of her consent,prepare for a date, correctly build your plans for a date of a date. If you invite a girl to a date "day to day", then there is a high chance of getting rejected: not always the girl will be able to cancel the planned plans for the evening and agree to a meeting.

Invitation to a dateAs you can see, this is not such a difficult task. If you approach this question correctly, in most cases, attempts will succeed. The main thing is to be sincere, honest and not try to be someone else, except yourself.