On what date can you kiss? Is the first date for kissing and how to make a guy a hint?
Not only young girls, but also adult women,going to the next rendezvous, ask a similar question. After all, the right moment for rapprochement can not only warm up interest in yourself, but also become the beginning of a long novel. So are there any rules regarding the first meetings, or should one act on the basis of a specific situation?
On what date can you kiss?
According to the rules of etiquette, a woman canallow yourself to kiss no earlier than after the second or third rendezvous. Many people just need a couple of meetings to see if their partner is right for them or not. Others and for 5 days spent together can not decide whether it is worth giving a friend a hint of a possible continuation of the relationship, but in a more similar format. However, not every man can endure 5 meetings without a single kiss, most likely he will understand that he is not interested in his acquaintance.
Many people are of the same opinion that choosingthe right moment for a more gentle relationship is necessary based on how well you know the person. Agree, if a guy invites to a meeting his childhood friend, who has long been unevenly breathing, and she responds to him in return, then why not kiss? Will this girl seem frivolous? In this situation, no, since both know in advance that they are not indifferent to each other.
Another thing is if a man or womango to a meeting with a person with whom they met in social networks, through friends, etc. Even if the outwardly the partner is "in your taste", before the kiss you need to better know it, then not to be disappointed.
Should I kiss on the first date?
It's up to you only to decide, but it's worth considering that after warmer relations on the first rendezvous, further events can develop in the following directions:
A girl can reject her boyfriend, considering him impudent.
A guy can find his girlfriend easily accessible, it is possible that interest in her will be lost.
Both will understand that they are not indifferent to each other. This will bring their relationship to a more serious level.
There are other situations when in advanceIt is known that acquaintance will be one-day and with your partner you will never see again. This happens at resorts, weekend excursions, in summer camps. If such an invitation came from a person whom, most likely, you will never meet again, then you can let your feelings go and let yourself be kissed, both adults and teenagers.
If the meeting is held with a person whoyou have serious plans, it is better to wait with rapprochement (a week, a month - depending on how the relationship will develop). Even if a man climbs with kisses, it will be appropriate to joke with a prearranged phrase. A well-educated person will always understand this step correctly according to etiquette.
How to behave on the first date to get a kiss?
If you decide for yourself that a rendezvous can be ended with an easy kiss on the cheek or lips, let your partner know that you liked it:
Listen attentively to it, let it be understood in simple language that it is interesting as a person.
Be unobtrusive, genuinely admire him, smile more often.
Let the partner look after you.
Casually, touch his hand, but do not do it too often.
Suggest a walk in a quiet place.
Sometimes he needs to make it clear that you are ready forromantic development of events. Let it be a casual pause in a conversation when you are standing or sitting next to each other. Look the guy in the eye, then lower your eyelashes, hold his hand, just tilt your head in his direction.
If you both show sympathy for each other, theneven such a rapid development of events is considered normal. Only this should not be a French kiss, but a light touch of lips and a gentle embrace. Yutoub offers a lot of videos on this topic, in one of which the psychologist Natalia Tolstaya will teach you how and when to kiss a man or a woman.
