Do I Need a Family?
Previously, the family was considered a social unit. To date, the family does not amount to this value. Women have become wiser and more circumspect, men have learned to do women's work no worse than women themselves. Some unions of people amaze: the family is created, but there is no respect and attention to each other at all. The question arises: do I need a family in conditions of such total indifference?
If you ask the family people what a family is for them, - the answer can be expected the most unpredictable. Women talk about some kind of physical support, which they could handle with great success themselves, and men rejoice that now they have a personal slave who will clean, wash and cook for days. No one even mentions such values as respect and understanding.
Do families need in modern society?? Some women consider their familiesparents and a child who was born for themselves. But the concept of "for yourself" is also quite blurry. Man is born not for someone, but exclusively for self-realization in this life. Women who are guided by the concept of "giving birth to themselves" can raise a child who will be completely unprepared for life. There are exceptions, if moms on time revise their methods of education.
Men in modern society, too, is difficult to determine the choice. They find it difficult to find the one that waswould be able to contain life, give birth to children and at the same time remain beautiful and well-groomed. It's not even a woman and the inability to comply with all these requirements at once, but in the conditions of modern life, which requires constant fuss, effort and complexity. Often, a woman drags herself all over herself, while a man, at best, assumes responsibility only for the financial provision of the family.
Now no one believes that there is mutual support in the family. Joint wallpaper gluing is equivalent tosomething inappropriate. Only one member of the family takes the child from the kindergarten, because even in the mentality of the society, for some reason, there is a complex scheme of rejection of someone else's family happiness. One of the parents must be either necessarily busy, or absent altogether.
Civil marriage is now considered a full-fledged family. If you take into account some nuances, civilmarriage is really a bit easier than official. If you ask the public why some couples live in a civil marriage, many will say: "In this case, there is no problem with divorce and with the division of property." Thus, subconsciously, people are already preparing for the worst. There can be no question of any kind of love. In the minds of people this concept is laid down: in marriage there is no time for love. Unfortunately, it is unknown where the legs of these nonsense grow. People have so strongly ceased to believe in the best that they literally destroy everything and break in their path, just to stay within the social standard.
Family is necessary. First of all, the family is a union of two loverspeople who want to spend life together. Family - this is happiness, which should be valued, cherished as the apple of the eye. If a child appears, he needs to be surrounded with care and warmth, thanks to each other for the appearance of the fruit of love. Always someone must concede, and someone - to argue. It does not happen that everything was smooth, but the slightest quarrel is not an excuse to destroy a marriage, remaining with a clear awareness of the unnecessaryness of the family. It's just very important to meet your man, based relationships on love and trust.
Do we need a family? This question can be asked only by very young people or uncertain in the future. But young people grow up, and those who are uncertain should understand that mutual support and the desire for shared happiness are the best, to what one should strive in life.
