How to fall in love with a man who leads in a registry office: A practical guide in 4 steps
Creating a family in terms of modern andfree from the prejudice of a woman is a certain algorithm of clear, thought-out, consistent actions. To turn up with a beloved and in love a man before the threshold of the registry office can be in four simple and logical steps. Become acquainted. Recognize. In love. Marry. The mission for the implementation of the last two steps will be a priori successful if one wisely "step through" the first two. Professional matchmakers know how to find a worthy candidate, to recognize in him a potential husband, to win the heart of a loved one and go to register a marriage on his convincing initiative.
Step 1. Get to know the right place
Where do potential husbands concentrate? There are many good places to go hunting. However, first of all it is necessary to study the pros and cons of the most common of them in order to easily "navigate the terrain" and not waste precious time on empty searches:
Public places (clubs, mass celebrations,shops, exhibitions). Very affordable option with a large selection, and yet experts call it ineffective. As a rule, men are careful not to get acquainted where witnesses of their personal frankness can become a whole crowd of onlookers.
Internet (social networks, dating sites). A very effective way to get acquainted with far-reaching plans. Men easily contact and reveal, since there are practically no boundaries in the virtual environment, the initiative often comes from women, therefore, decision-making and responsibility fall on both sides.
Marriage Agencies. Professional "matchmakers" with a solid reputation have not only a large base of suitors, but also psychologists who among them will help find their own. However, most often the services of agencies are used by men who for one reason or another are unable to meet the girl on their own.
Friends. On the one hand - one of the most psychologically comfortable options, where you can always rely on the knowledge and support of friends. But on the other - there is a probability in the event of a failed relationship with your loved one and lose friends.
Step 2. Recognize a man ready to marry
When a decent man is found, and the relationship, onfirst look, look promising, it is worth looking at them secondly - a conscious look, so as not to happen, as in the proverb: "To promise, does not mean to marry." The marriage will never dare:
The eternal bachelor. A man who at the age of 40 can boast of a collection of broken hearts, but has no experience of marriage, appreciates the weight of gold freedom, personal comfort and domestic independence. He does not need a relationship with obligations.
Married man. Relations with the "stranger" - a game in the lottery, and according to the law of the genre, it is possible to break the jackpot to units. Oaths to leave the family often become a worn out record, and time is irretrievably gone.
An avid businessman. He's already married. At your work! Career for him is paramount. He does not have time for acquaintance, a candy-bouquet stage in relations, and even relations. But even if you manage to marry a careerist, then marriage with him threatens to degenerate into a monologue about loneliness in the family.
Sissy. The eternal child of his mother will force his potential wife to compete with her: in borscht, caring, love. Mom is the most important woman in his life. Another such is not, and never will be! And is it worth it to marry, if the mother does not see equal to herself, and therefore worthy of her son ?!
Step 3. Fall in love with a potential husband
Many women comprehend the failure right afterfirst date. How to submit yourself to attract a man, the American psychologist Arthur Aron knows. He argues that success is hidden in matters that the pair exchanges at their first meeting. Questions like "How are you?", "What are you doing?", Etc., generalized, and suggest the same faceless answers. The non-standard question helps the woman to open herself and reveal the interlocutor. To locate a man you like, accelerate rapprochement, enchant and literally fall in love at first sight will help five unexpected questions:
Before you call someone, do you prepare a speech? Why?
What would be preferable to you in a very old age - a young body or a clear mind?
When was the last time you felt happy?
What memory do you most upset?
Imagine that your house is burning. Have you managed to save all your loved ones and animals, and you have time to save one more thing? What will it be?
Step 4. To cause an irresistible desire to get married
When a man has an intention to create a family, hepursues goals that will meet its basic needs. Having a clear idea of why a man needs a family, a woman gets a trump card advantage over rivals who always swarm around a worthy man:
Respect and recognition. Creating a family, every man wants to be the president of his little "state". A woman who recognizes this and allows a man to realize his inner worth in a relationship will forever remain the only "first lady" in his life.
Sex and seduction. A man is an eternal hunter, and while he is interested in hunting for the "twist" prey, arranging love "traps" and satisfy his basic instinct, he is a woman on a tenacious hook. The lack of regular sex paves his way "to the left."
Support and reliable rear. For a man his house and family are in every sense his fortress. He will always remain with that woman who, even in the most difficult moments, when the whole world will rise against him, will stand behind him and give cartridges.
Cozy house and tasty food. A woman who wants and knows how to wield a "generic nest" is much more likely to become and remain his only mistress. A man who is waiting for a cozy atmosphere and a delicious dinner, his legs will always lead only home.
Father's instincts and the continuation of the family. Every man at the level of instincts seeks to continue on the Earth. He needs an heir to whom at least he will pass on his genes, and together with them, perhaps, life wisdom, a family estate or a family business.
