Sex with a former

Why do people have sex with former partners? The reasons can be different. Sometimes sex is just sex: there is nothing wrong with what a person wantsto have sex, this is a natural desire of the body. And after parting, not all are ready for a new relationship. The former becomes a logical choice: you have a mutual attraction, he knows how to please you. So why not have sex, if you are both pleased and both of you do not want anything more?

That's just not all girls are able to share sex and feelings. Even if they think that sex with the former is just satisfaction of physical desire, they can deceive themselves. Often, a sexual relationship with an ex-man is an attempt to either cling to the past, or to return everything the way it was. Often this results in a vicious circle: she has sex with an ex, because she can not find a new man, but she can not find a new man precisely because she has sex with a former man.

Another reason why some sleep with the former is self-assertion. It's nice to realize that you are so good atbed, that he did not find himself anybody else and prefers to have sex with you. But only here you have to be careful: who can guarantee that the former does not have sex with someone else? So, it's not worth forgetting about condoms - how little it can reward you during your "friendly-nostalgic" sex.

Sex with the ex has both its pluses and minuses. Plus is that you know each other well, which means that sex is likely to be excellent. You will not need to look for a new partner,adapt to it, find out its erogenous zones, etc. If you are not ready to start a new relationship, and want sex, then perhaps this is not the worst option. In addition, as we have already said, the realization that the former still wants you, despite the fact that you broke up, flattered self-esteem.

However, there are such relations and minuses. If one of you still has feelings, sex for him will be an attempt to renew the relationship. In addition, having sex with the former will not allowyou completely release it and start a new relationship: why move on and look for a new man if you have good sex? That's just such a relationship can not be called full-fledged, it's a kind of simplified version - physical intimacy without emotional. Sooner or later you will get tired of this and understand how much time has lost.

All of the above concerns mostly regular sex with the ex by mutual agreement. But sometimes such sex happens by chance under the influence of alcohol, stress, rush of memories. What is called, "so it turned out." You can not restore it, the main thing is to correctly behave after it happened. Do not think that one-time sex is the resumption of a relationship. Do not run after the former after it happened. Just continue to communicate with the former, as they communicated before this incident, do not give casual sex too much importance.

Do you have sex with the former - it's yours and only your choice. Someone considers such a model of relations quiteviable, and someone calls sexual relations with the former or former "psychological prostitution". Very important here is your ability to abstract from the emotional component of the relationship. If you are willing to put up with the fact that sex is just sex and nothing more, and get pleasure from it, why not try it? But remember that such relationships can not last forever. Sooner or later you will have to finally break up and go your own way - or try to start all over again if both you and the partner decide to give each other a second chance.