How to behave with a former

The former can be a favorite guy, lover orhusband. With her husband, it's more difficult, since you can have common children, so you'll have to keep in touch with him constantly. But now it's not about children and painful partings, how to behave with a former.
First, let's talk about such things that you do not needdo with the ex-boyfriend. If there are things that are unacceptable in your behavior when meeting with the former, then there are those for whom it is worth communicating with him. It is rumored that former lovers are the most faithful friends. Well, try to check.
Never need to have sex with a former
Nothing good from this lesson will not work,even if everything happened at the request of both. Feelings that roll when meeting with the former, can be so strong that you instantly start to dream about how to start anew with him. But this is only at the meeting. And imagine what will happen to you after having sex with an ex. You can dream, and then start to imagine a long and happy life with an ex-boyfriend. It's up to you, but remember that after the next parting you will again have to learn to live without it, beloved.
Do not allow him to store your erotic pictures
The situation may be that his new passion will find your "nude" photos and make a scandal. Do you need it? Moreover, he will suffer all the same, but you, too, will be unpleasant in such a situation.
Do not write him letters or sms
After breaking the relationship, we need to move forward andonly there. But the correspondence that has arisen will not give any chance of moving to new relationships and sensations. If you start meaningless communication with the former, then you have to remember all the moments of your life with him: from happy to the most painful. Are you ready for this? Then it is better not to start anything like this.
Erase it from the list
From which list? Yes of any, most importantly - It is less to communicate with him, especially if you are very hard experienced a break with your beloved. To behave with the former must be done carefully, soto tell. It should not be an obsession. For example, you begin to call him or write whole essays about feelings, quickly asking about health or about things. So it's no good, once you cross it out - it's forever. If you already met on the street, then take a couple of minutes for a formal welcome.
But now there are few pleasant moments left. You could have several common friends or common affairs, so you can behave with the former and in a friendly way. If this is not a burden for you, then you will suffer and communicate.
Mutual friends
If you broke up with friends, then no one will have an awkward feeling when meeting in one company. Friends do not have to choose, with whom to communicate, and with whom - no.
Unfinished business
It happens that you have parted ways with someevent, for example, you were invited to a birthday or to a relative's wedding. How to be? If you are on friendly terms with the former, you can visit the event together without feeling guilty and uncomfortable.
Less experience, more positive moments
So, are you friends? Then it will be easier for you to meet in the city. It is better just to smile at him and greet him, rather than hide and gloomily turn away. If he was an excellent listener or understood you very well, then you can use his positive qualities for yourself. You can become good friends if circumstances favorably develop.
If you broke up on good terms, then behaving with the former should also be good. You do not need to talk about it badly in public, in a company of friends. A good attitude towards a person is an indicator of your maturity. A little different situation if you have a child with him. It is necessary to maintain friendly relations with the former, because you are showing an example to your child.














