Sex education
Many parents believe that it is embarrassing, embarrassing, indecent to talk with their children on a sensitive subject. The whole paradox is that connivance in such an important
process as sex education, is fraught with early pregnancies of underage girls, the rapid spread of venereal diseases, AIDS, an increase
the growth of prostitution and the number of abandoned children.
Teachers and parents are beginning to seriously think about this topic when children reach adolescence. But as a rule, children by this time are already "shod" by the rich
information taken from illiterate and ignorant sources. Especially "helps" in this internet.
Parents need to understand that sex education - this is not a show off of intimate relationships and not propaganda to action. This is the release of a teenager from
a false sense of shame and the formation of respect for the important side of human life - relationship between man and woman.
In no case you can not let the sex education of children - it's criminal on your part. Many unformed adolescents are frightened by their physiological
changes that occur in their body, hide, are ashamed. Because of this, there are problems in communicating with peers, with parents. Stress and nervous experiences on
This soil can be deplorable in the future on a relationship with the opposite sex.
Sexual education of the child should be in it form a full representative of your gender. It is to parents that an important role in the education of women from
girls and men from the boy. And the relationship between parents is the main pattern of the relationship between the sexes. For example, many maniacs, pedophiles, etc. received in childhood
the strongest psychotrauma on sexual grounds. Girls who have not received enough love and care in the family often become prostitutes.
The longer you delay the conversation on a sexual topic, the greater the likelihood of a child's shock, down to disgust. The questions of children are quite natural and
testify to normal personal development.
Not only teenagers, but even children of preschool age should know, how to protect yourself from sexual violence. Just need to tell the child about
misconduct of some adults,which must be refused to go along with them. Explain what it is fraught with - after all, a naive person who does not know anything, does not even suggest what to watch out for.
Do not be shocked by the child's sudden use of obscene words. He probably does not know their meaning, but simply for someone repeats. The stronger you will be
react to obscene words, the more interesting they seem to the child. Sometimes it is enough to ignore such statements, but if the curses are repeated,
calmly explain to him why you do not want to hear them.
When communicating with a child on a sexual topic, you must follow certain rules:
Calmly and kindly treat all juicy issues. Do not make fun of the child, do not shout and do not punish. On the contrary, rejoice that they asked you, not
yard children.
Do not leave the conversation. If you have any questions on this topic, then it's time to talk. Do not be afraid to say too much. The child will remember only what he finds interesting.
Be sure to make sure that your conversation was between you, do not advertise the topic in the presence of others.
Try to answer all the questions concretely and truthfully, from simple to complex. It is not necessary to go into the smallest details. Naturally, about any cabbage and
Stork is out of the question.
It is possible that you will not know the correct answers to any questions. At the present time it is quite possible to find the necessary medical or psychological literature, where there is
necessary information.
If you suddenly find out that your teenage child has begun to have sex, this does not mean that he no longer needs sex education. At first, you need to take
this is already a fait accompli and not a scandal, otherwise you will lose contact and understanding with your child. A Secondly, swipe
confidential conversation on the topic of protection from early pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases with detailed explanations than it is fraught with. And let your child know that you
he is a close friend and he can always count on your help and wise advice.
Proper sex education should help you grow a full and happy person from your child., and also instill in him a sense of responsibility for
their actions.
