Children's pranks: how to fight

Children's pranks begin with a primitive permissiveness. This is especially true of long-awaited children. Parents who have long waited for the birth of a child, sometimes go beyond the limits of allowable and allow children things that others bring discomfort. After a while, parents also begin to suffer from the habits of their spoiled children, but it becomes more and more difficult to cope with them.

It should be borne in mind that children respect the opinion of parents until parents themselves kill their reputation in the eyes of the child. What to do if children's pranks can not be stopped?

Ask yourself: at what age did the child begin to fool around? Perhaps at some point you have closed your eyes tohis upbringing and left the child to himself? Naturally, children need to be taught to be independent from an early age, but do not forget that children who know the world pay attention to negative things.

Attentively analyze the behavior of the child. How does he behave with the guys in the yard / in the garden / in theschool? If he fights and disrespects peers, then it is necessary to conduct an educational conversation with him. In no case do not punish the child until you figure out why he behaves this way. Perhaps he was offended or beaten. Not wanting to be slander, children often try to solve the problem themselves. Sometimes they do not admit to their parents that they are offended. This is due to the fact that parents often reproach their children, they say, "do not be a roar", "you are a man", etc. Children are acutely aware of the superiority of adults, because they themselves want to grow up as soon as possible. Hence the desire to achieve justice with fists or insulting insults, heard, perhaps, from you.

If the child spoils the property, try to take measures carefully. Do not beat your hands, smear mustard things that he gnaws, and put on buckwheat. By this, you show the child that the strength andcunning is the main guarantee of success. Do not be surprised if he quickly learns to lie after such methods of education. Explain to the child that if he, for example, cuts a tablecloth, Mom will have to buy a new one, which means that the whole family will remain without goodies. Nevertheless, do not bribe children with gifts for good behavior, otherwise the child will overcome himself in the name of the cherished chocolate: you will instill in him a thirst for rewards, and the child in the future is unlikely to do anything simply because of enthusiasm.

If the child rolls the public tantrums, it is not necessary for all to shout at him and even more so -beat. Psychologists say that if a child begins to roll on the floor with screams and tears, you need to say: "Come on, knock your feet stronger!". The child perceives this as a requirement, and the requirements of the children are reluctant, which can become a quick ending to hysteria.

Children's pranks pass with age. The child overgrows and becomes calmer. In order not to suffer too much from children's hysteria, try to pay more attention to the child, but do not overdo it: rememberthat the boy needs more attention to his father,and the girl, motherly and fatherly. Try to fill the child's leisure with the most interesting activities, and you will not experience any problems in his growing up. In addition, spending cognitive activities with the child, parents and themselves learn a lot of useful and interesting things, and the child grows happy, and he simply does not have time for pranks.