How to understand what is crazy about you
It is assumed that in modern societythe social status of women and men is absolutely equal (it is clear that we are talking about the European society, and not about the problems of emancipation among the Tuaregs). Relations within the man-woman have long ceased to be regarded as purely romantic or purely mercantile. People of different sexes can be colleagues, classmates, co-workers or just good comrades. This format of communication exhausts the problem of sexes from past centuries and does not accept stereotypes.
However, ease of communication can generatesome difficulties, paradoxically, this phrase does not sound. Noticing in the relationship a romantic perspective, it is difficult to go beyond the already existing framework of friendship, partnership or friendly relations.
For girls and women, the question "Do I like him?"Remains a painful one. It is possible to guess over it for months before deciding on ... a step forward. Or backward, or even to jump to the side - but with uncertainty of motion are difficult.
Let's name some signs that will help expose your Romeo - already in love, or just hoping for reciprocity:
1. He avoids direct eye contact. In conversation, he raises his eyes to you rarely and for long.
2. A close look, when you do not see it or if it thinks, you do not notice. Unlike women, men reluctantly and unskillfully use their peripheral vision. At the object of adoration they look intently and straight, prefer to see and view the whole picture. Therefore, a man in love necessarily stops you looking when you are busy with work, talking on the phone or just passing by.
3. Elements of unnatural behavior. In your presence, he starts fussing, loudly laughing or becoming sullen and incessantly grumbling, and in the company without you behaves differently
4. He remembers many of the little things that you have associated with, about which you mentioned in his presence: the name of your favorite book, the optimal style of shoes, the birthday of your grand-aunt. Often such knowledge of a man manifests by tying public discussion on a topic close to you, or openly provoke you to a dispute when he knows your categorical point of view on any issue.
5. In conversation he tries to interest. Of course, this does not happen intrusively. For example, he can mention some of his family or personal difficulties, joys or problems. Thus, he tries to interest you in his life, to associate you with her.
6. Any your interaction with other males causes him to be irritated. One of the most reliable signs, observed almost in all lovers of men, even though it manifests itself in different ways. It happens that, noticing your communication with another man, he becomes detached, active, laughable, whiny - but the irritation prevails.
7. Random meetings. The more often they happen, the more accurate the symptom. If you meet a man suddenly - this is not destiny at all, but his thoughtful plan for the embodiment of the desire to see you. To understand seriously his explanations in the style of "I just passed by and did not expect to find you here, oh, what a pleasant meeting with my surprise" is not worth it. I expected to find you, too.
8. Shows interest in your hobbies, shares vital, political and gastronomic views. Uses any opportunity to learn more about you, makes conversation on topics that interest you.
9. Do not miss the opportunity to spend time together. If all the friendly working collective decided to make the removal in a restaurant, karaoke or cinema, our candidate will go there in any case. Even if he mentioned other plans only an hour ago - all the affairs miraculously evaporate.
Have you learned all the points? And now look at the men around you and try to find a balance between the heart and mind. He is - most importantly, to look with an unblurred gaze, to have a sober mind and a sincere heart.
Author: Katerina Sergeenko
