How to brighten up loneliness

To start - do not despair. Temporary loneliness - not so seriousproblem, as it may seem. Take it as a kind of gift: now it's far from every person has enough time, which he can devote himself and only himself. And you have this time, so spend it with profit!

Brighten up loneliness will help to make plans for the future. When we are tightened routine, and all day longpainted by the minute, we start to live by inertia: there is no time to stop and think - and what do we really want? If you have time that you spend alone, it can be used to prioritize life, plan goals and ways to achieve them.

If you are satisfied with your life and do not plan any global changes, the solitude will help you brighten up any occupation for which you previously could not allocate time. You can finally reconsider the entire filmography of your favorite actor or all the seasons of your favorite TV series, read all the books that hands did not reach before.

Also, the time spent alone - a great opportunity to do self-education, learn a new hobby or sport. You have long dreamed of learning Italian,Learn how to embroider ribbons or dance belly dancing? It's time to realize your dream! By the way, if you enroll in some courses, brighten up the loneliness will help you new friends who share your hobby.

Some brighten up loneliness helps pet care. Get a puppy, a kitten or at least a hamster -caring for a living being that meets you with affection and love, will make your life brighter. However, remember that you are responsible for your pet. Even if something else (or someone else) appears in your life that will take your free time, you will still need to pay attention to your pet.

So if you are not sure what periodloneliness will drag on for a long time, and after it the care of the pet will not turn into an unpleasant duty, you should not succumb to the temptation to buy a cute puppy or a touching kitten. Better buy tamagochi or get yourself an online pet - it can be thrown at any moment without consequences and remorse.

Since we mentioned the online pets, let's talk about Another way to brighten up loneliness - surfing the Internet. The Internet provides virtually limitlessopportunities for both entertainment and self-education. It will help you have fun, expand your horizons, meet new people (albeit virtually). However, the time spent on the Internet should be limited: the virtual web is easy to drag out people, and getting rid of Internet addiction is very difficult.

How else can you brighten up your loneliness? You can go to a cafe or an exhibition, a nightclub or just for a walk ... Many are embarrassed to get out into public places alone, being afraid of skewed looks and even condemnation. Actually, nothing shameful in this no. Everyone has the full right to dine inrestaurant or a cup of coffee in splendid isolation. Loneliness can be a conscious choice, so eating lunch in a cafe or going to a movie without a companion or company does not make you a loser.

In general, to brighten up loneliness will help almost any occupation that you like: the main thing is not to fall into depression and "squeeze a maximum" out of the free time that you got. And if you think that the period of lonelinesstoo long, instead of feeling sorry for yourself, take the initiative: call an old friend or invite, finally, to lunch that same cute colleague who has been staring at you for a week because of the monitor. All in your hands!