Male faults through the eyes of women

Men's shortcomings: selfishness

Man's selfishness can manifest in different ways, but one of the most common manifestations of it is self-deportation. Looking in the mirror, a woman sees her shortcomings,and the man has his own merits. Many men are confident in their mind and their irresistibility, and do not want to notice that in fact they are not geniuses and not supermen, they do not want to improve. But at the same time they demand that their woman look like one hundred percent.

There are also other manifestations of male egoism. Say, when in a company he is a king, a centerattention, and you remain modest role suite that must be silent (occasionally nodding and nodding) and catch every word of his king. Often, male egoism manifests itself in bed when you do only what you like, and your man does not care about your desires and needs.

Men's shortcomings: slovenliness and lack of organization

Slovenliness and lack of organization - fairly common mens faults. How often do women complain that their secondhalves throw a lot of clothes where they undress, forget to shave, leave in the sink a mountain of unwashed dishes, and then also make women guilty of not being able to find clean socks and a shirt. This can also include the indifference of some men to their own appearance.

Yes, and disorganization of men is not uncommonbecomes the cause of claims from women. Usually it is believed that women tend to meet for a long time and are constantly late, but there are many "cops" among men. The problem is that shortly before the release they can find some kind of super important business - for example, an unresolved crossword puzzle - and go into it with your head. Also, male disorganization can include the habit of forgetting one's promises.

Men's shortcomings: jealousy

Both women's and men's shortcomings include this "monster with green eyes," as one of the heroes of William Shakespeare once dubbed jealousy. By itself, jealousy is a perfectly normal feeling, if only do not give him the will. But the jealousy is paranoid, not supported by real motives and evidence of treason, can become a serious problem in the relationship.

Unreasonable jealousy is a manifestation of notlove, but feelings of ownership, mistrust of a partner and self-doubt. The main problem is that female jealousy manifests itself in scandals and hysterics, and the man thanks to his strength can in a fit of jealousy and a hand on a woman to raise. Of course, this applies to very "clinical" cases, but this happens.

Men's shortcomings: greed

Sooner or later, the candy-bouquet period withhiking in restaurants ends, and the man becomes not so generous. Of course, not everyone can afford to give a beloved woman a rose every day and drive her to a restaurant, it's natural. But when the normal aspiration to spend money intelligently turns into stinginess and greed, it is unlikely that will please a woman.

But this list of men's shortcomings is notlimited - can continue for a long time. But does this mean that men are so bad? Of course not. Firstly, it is rare for a man to have all the male deficiencies "in the complex". Secondly, not always these shortcomings reach their extreme manifestations. Usually everything is not as scary as it might seem.

Is it worth trying to correct male deficiencies? Remember that there are no ideal people, so you will not be able to "blind" yourself to a man without any shortcomings. Therefore, do this: divide all the shortcomings of men into those with which you can put up and those that you do not intend to tolerate.

In the future, when evaluating a man as a potential partner, do not expect that he will generally have shortcomings, simply make sure that he does not have flaws that you can not tolerate.

If later he wants to get rid of some flaws for you - excellent! And if not - well, you are not perfect yourself, just accept and learn to compromise in a relationship.