Successful child: three rules for parents
Success is a quality that, perhaps,every parent wants to see in their child. But the numerous schools of early development, the school of young geeks, miraculous trainings and various circles - rather, a tribute to social fashion, rather than a conscious desire to grow talent. All the necessary components of successful thinking are laid in the preschool age due to the methods of parental upbringing. How? Responding to children's psychological counselors.
In the first place - the improvement of natural qualities. The skills of reading, counting and writing are certainly important, but the development of memory, logical thinking, intelligence and imagination is much more valuable. If literacy is taught in kindergarten and continues to be taught in school, then intellectual abilities are the sphere of parental responsibility. Training should be done in a game form, gradually complicating the tasks. This will allow the child in the future to "grasp" the educational program on the fly.
A parent is a mentor, not a supervisor. Adults tend to, even unconsciously, "press" authority, impose their own desires, to realize through their own child unrealized ambitions. The daughter wants to do judo - but my mother, who dreamed of becoming a dancer, takes her to the ballet. The pope with disdain concerns the enthusiasm for the son of entomology, considering the interest in insects as "loss of time" and sends the kid to the football team. It is necessary to decide not for the child, but with him: thus it is possible to bring up responsibility for actions and the desire to follow the chosen path.
Promotion of children's autonomy is indispensablestep on the way to success. Even if the kid is tired, do not rush to do everything for him - you can put books on the shelf or lay down some of the toys, but the child must necessarily participate in cleaning. The same is true of all the responsibilities of the baby - your help should not cancel his responsibility.
