How to accelerate the transition age in boys and the problems of the transitional age of boys and girls
Sooner or later the child grows up. And on the way of his growing up is the age of transition. In boys and girls, the adolescent period is different, but the common feature remains complex changes in character. In the voice of a teenager there is a certain protest and disregard for everything that is happening. These manifestations are associated with the physiological processes in the body.
Symptoms of Adolescence
The indicators of growing up are:
The first and most important thing is behavior. The difficulty of the parents of a teenager is that the child begins to behave strangely. Discontent, hysterics for no apparent reason and closure are caused by changes in the inner world of the child.
Physiological features. The appearance of the teenager begins to change. Sharp growth, changes in weight, skin problems and a broken voice are all signs of a transitional age.
Changes in character. The transition period is the responsible time for character formation. At this time, adolescents are increasingly looking for their "own" environment, experimenting with companies - from informal movements or gamers to athletes or fantasy buffs.
How does the transition age appear in boys?
Adolescence is the age of psychological andphysiological maturation. From this stage a person begins to realize himself as a person, he develops stable character traits and life principles. The beginning of the changes is 10-12 years. The end - about 17 years, when the testicles and penis of boys become larger, hair in the intimate zone grows (if this does not happen, treatment is required).
How are the changes manifested?
Physiological. Representatives of the male significantly increase in growth, they develop musculature, bone tissue increases. Special changes occur in the shoulders, which become much wider. Men's hormones awaken, which affects the breaking of the voice. For a while the guy says falsetto, that is very thin. Skin suffers from acne and acne. In the areas of the armpits, chest and groin, the growth of the hairline is enhanced. The same can be said about the beard and mustache. The sweat secretions are activated.
Psychological. An adult is distinguished by unjustified aggression and a strong protest against his environment.
What are the symptoms of adolescence in girls?
A teenage girl during her growing up has such features:
Physiology. Unlike boys, a future girl can begin to "mature" from the age of 8. It is possible to break all the features of the organism's changes into age categories:
8-10 years - appear roundness of the pelvis, hips.
9-10 years - increases the growth of hair in the genital area and underarms.
10-11 years - the beginning of breast growth.
11-12 years - the appearance of menstruation, although such processes are possible in 13-14. This age is the most painful. The skin of the face is covered with pimples and acne.
15-16 years - a regular menstrual cycle is established.
Emotional failures. Girls have a pronounced egocentrism. They often fall into depression, girls are visited by angry attacks, they are unhappy with themselves and try to fix it with all their strength. Hence - wearing fancy clothes and bright makeup. Emotionality of an adult girl can be associated with a difference in the hormonal system.
At this time, it is important for mom and dad to make it clear that their daughter is loved by everyone, that her appearance is the most attractive, and she does not need to prove anything to others.
Useful tips for parents
Parents should not criticize their children,reproach them for inadequate behavior. It is important to give the child more personal space, to help him feel his importance and self-sufficiency (for example, to give the opportunity to play games like Puppy Patrol (race) or GTA 5). It is important to always thank the teenager, this will allow him to increase his self-esteem.
During the period of active growth, the child needs morefood, so do not be surprised that the 12-year-old son is more of an adult father. If at the same time the normal physique and activity are maintained, then the need for such a volume of food is normal.
And most importantly - do not ignore the child. As a rule, problem behavior is a consequence of incomprehensibility or lack of attention on the part of parents. A teenager should have a personal space, and at the same time he should always know that you need him.
