Mistakes of education

Word "Education" is derived from the word "Food", i.e. "Feeding". The child receives the very first elements of education with

mother's milk - this is love, peace, peace of mind, joy. However, in the future, the education of a small person is no longer so materially visible, but due to

all kinds of external influences. After all, the goal of education is the expected changes in the behavior and thinking of a person under the influence of planned measures. Those. exactly

your actions aimed at the formation of the child's personality, completely depend on the chosen strategy of education.

We will not go into details about the various methods and types of education, but we list, what are the mistakes of education.

Errors of education: deprivation of independence

Using strict rules and regulations, including authoritarian control over each child's action, you thereby "Digging the hole" of his initiative and

independence. Such children grow up to be inert people who are not able to make any decision. Of course, they can be good performers, but

they will no longer be able to cope with any difficulty themselves. They are completely subordinate to the power of other people's ideas. They are afraid of responsibility and punishment.

Tip. Let the child feel his personal space. Let him decide on his own and bear responsibility for it. Encourage all interesting

ideas. If you refuse something to a child, be sure to explain why. Consult your child more often - he should feel his importance in the house.

By the way, children can advise you a lot of business - they look at problems differently.

Education errors: lack of cohesion

Do not run the child if you do anything around the house. Exactly joint activities with parents allow the child to learn to perform "adult" work.

Believe me, for the child there is nothing more joyful and interesting than admission to adult labor. Wash with my mother's dishes, paint with her dad railing on the balcony - is not this happiness?

It's okay if after such a joint work in the kitchen you have to swim in a kayak or go to the balcony in rubber boots (you, by the way, did not all at once know how).

But the benefits of family communication are incredibly high.

Tip. Compulsions for cleaning, you just invoke the child's aversion to domestic chores. Accustom to put things in order in the room in the form of games and encouragement (for example, who

he will quickly collect toys, he gets a candy).

Errors of education: unilateral development

Many parents act erroneously, if they focus only on the mental development of the child. Exactly harmonious physical and mental development favorably affects

on the future of your baby. Everyone knows the proverb "In a healthy body - a healthy mind", but not all use it.

On the street you can often hear from moms cries addressed to your children, like "Do not run", "Sit here", "Do not go there." And why? They will not answer you. Simply to them so

convenient. And where to put the child extra energy? That's poured into incomprehensible whims, excessive self-indulgence and even aggression.

Tip. Allow the child a lot and actively move, do exercises together, walk more in the fresh air, visit the sports sections, given the character

your child (individual or team sports).

Education errors: malnutrition

We will not open America for you, if we say that nutrition culture is of great importance in the development of the child. Overeating or eating fast food brings

a huge harm to the health of the baby, and, in the future, can cause diseases such as obesity, diabetes, bronchial asthma, hypertension, mental disorders, gastrointestinal

diseases, etc. The child should know from his parents what kind of food is useful and harmful, and the excessive use of the same "Coca-Cola" or "Chupa-Chups" is fraught with danger. By the way, if your

the family adheres to vegetarianism, then this type of food is contraindicated for the child. Without meat, children retard development both physically and mentally.

Tip. The child should know his diet - breakfast, lunch and dinner. Do not refuse toddler in afternoon sweets and sweets. But if possible, replace them

fruits and natural juices.

Errors of education: indifference

Many mothers believe that their main functions are to feed the child, take a walk with him and put him to sleep. They are deeply mistaken. The child simply necessary for a full

emotional development constant communication with parents. Draw together, invent your games, try to do everything together. But most importantly - praise for good

business. Talk to your child about all his problems - he needs to know that he has armor protection in the form of his beloved parents.

Tip. You should have your own "secretaries". If a child tells you something in secret, then this should remain a secret between you, otherwise you risk forever

to lose his trust. By the way, it can affect the rest of his life, he can become withdrawn and detached from the outside world. It is very important that your child feels

care and attention.

Errors of education: humiliation

Incredibly cruel and bad parents act when they beat or shout at their kids (especially in public). Most likely, such parents would not like it if they were also

struck. He does not know that children beaten by parents grow up soulless, callous and deceitful. Beating is not a guarantee that the child will understand the essence of things.

But children's resentment and anger will remain for a long time.

Tip. Respect the personality of your child. He is the same person as you, only a small one. Punishment may be in the form of a refusal of the promised gift, etc., but in no way

not in the form of whipping and humiliation.

Babies grow up, but not many people manage to translate their dreams into reality. Most of them become boring and clamped by men and women, full of

complexes and problems. And that is the fault of the mistakes made by their parents.

Realize that every child is a unique being, possessing incredible potential, talent and great abilities. It is necessary only to help him

uncover. Be good parents, and you will have good children.