5 Steps to Find a Purpose in Life
The goal is the basic unit of the life plan. A properly chosen goal is your true destination, which will guide you through all life's obstacles. However, it is difficult to determine true desires. The book "Dreaming is not harmful" will help you find your goal.
Decide on your interests
Desires must be in your interests. There are two recommendations that will help you choose a target - a touchstone and role model.
Touchstone Is what you most want to receive fromits purpose. Self-realization in creativity, fame, money, the opportunity to help people, the closeness to nature, love ... If you designate your touchstone in a few words, it will help you to choose the goal and plan the shortest path to it.
Role model Is a person who has already achieved results inyour chosen area. Examples for imitation help define goals, inspire and guide the action. Learn as much as possible about the life of your role play, learn its behavior and make useful conclusions for yourself.
Be liberated
Remember, you do not need to sign blood on purpose. One of the most harmful misconceptions of our culture is the need to rigidly hold on to the goal. This attitude fetters actions - we dare not make decisions, because we are afraid of life sentences. Therefore, as soon as possible, refuse such parting words. If you took the first steps, but the goal does not meet your needs, do not be afraid to part with it. In any case, you will gain experience of progress towards the goal and practical skills.
Formulate a specific goal
Your real goal should be specificaction or event. The abstract desire to become a writer is a dream, but the release of your own book is already a goal. It is at the moment when you sign the first copy of your own book, you recognize yourself as a writer, and society will agree with this fact.
Get rid of temporary whims
Fleeting desires can not become the goal of life. To distinguish real dreams from temporary whims, imagine that you have achieved the goal. If you are right now on the slope of Everest, your books will appear on the shelves of all bookstores or you will be approached by "Mr. President", will you feel at home or desperately want to find yourself at home and continue to dream in a warm chair?
Try to draw your goal in the imagination and "try it on yourself." If you do not really want to get what you want, then nothing good will come of it.
Only you determine the success of your goal
Each person has his own goal, and therefore,the results are also different. For someone wealth means a house in the suburbs, and for others - the presence of five cars. Think about what should happen to you say: "Now I'm a movie star (a successful designer of racing yachts, the best engineer, celebrity, rich)"? Your answer will not be like the answers of other people. Remember, the only person you should be happy with is yourself and only you determine your success.
The earlier you decide on your goal andyou will take the first steps towards achieving it, the more energy will remain for other important matters. And you will become happier, healthier and more benevolent towards others. It's time to move on to action!
Based on the book "Dreaming is not harmful."
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