Relations with a foreigner

Relations with a foreigner: a language barrier

At an early stage of the relationship - correspondence - this problem girls usually do not care. You can always ask for help from a girlfriend who knows English well, or resort to the services of professional translators in the marriage agency. But what to do next, with live communication in Skype and in person? You can, of course, take an interpreter along, but what about intimacy? Moreover, if you marry your foreigner, what kind of interpreter can you talk about in your family life?

So that option one - learn a foreign language. To begin with, at least English. The mother tongue of your chosen one you can learn later when you go abroad (there it will be easier, because a foreign speech will sound from everywhere). It may seem that lovers do not need words - the unity of souls and all that. That's just insulting to find out, for example, that your chosen one was not going to marry you and honestly tried to report it, but you did not understand.

Relations with a foreigner: cultural characteristics

In each country - its own cultural characteristics, its mentality, and before deciding on a serious relationship with a foreigner, you need to get acquainted with the culture of his country. Maybe at the dating stage it's not soActually, but then you have to live among this culture. As you know, they do not climb into a strange monastery with their own charter. With the European mentality of problems usually occurs less, but if your chosen one lives in a Muslim country, you will have to get used to many things and maybe even accept Islam.

Of course, much depends on the particular person and how much they are accustomed to adhere to the traditions in his family. For example, in Turkeynon-Muslims who lead a completely European way of life and do not demand anything from their wives beyond what we are already accustomed to. Or vice versa - a European elected one can be an adherent of a house-building and will not even work for you ("Kinder, Küche, Kirche - this is your place, woman").

You can read about the culture of another country at the stage of correspondence, and learn about family traditions carefully in person. Who is forewarned is armed. Well, and if you did not find out, do not be surprised then,if the husband brings a woman to the house and says: "This is my second wife, now she will live with us." We exaggerate, of course, but in every joke there is only a joke.

Relationships with an alien: distance

No matter how you meet a foreigner - througha dating site or in your home country (at work, say, or friends brought down) - your relationship is likely to have to withstand the test by distance. Separation can be lengthy and not very, but For a while you may have to live in two countries.

If he called you to marry, do not force events(Of course, if your only goal is to go abroad, you will want to arrange everything quickly, but this article is intended rather for those girls who meet foreigners for love). First think - are you ready for such a decisive step? Can you live in another country? Will you have a chance there to be realized professionally? Well, do not forget that bureaucratic red tape with the preparation of all the necessary documents can also take a lot of time.

In fact, relations with a foreigner, of course, differ from relations with a compatriot, but usually not as radical as one might think. If you have a good, loving person, you will probably be able to overcome the language barrier and cultural differences and stand the test of separation. People have any "cockroaches" of any nationality, so we wish you optimism and patience.