What to do if the husband changes

First of all, reconsider your family life. How often do you talk about living together? When was the last time you spent leisure together? How long have you had sex? If all this was a long time and only for the sake of "bird" in your relationship, then there is reason to sound the alarm. But just do not do it too loudly and for show.

Alas, all men change sooner or later, as well as women. The problem is only in the perception of betrayal. Someone's news of treason is unsettling, someone is driving into a long depression, and someone is able to just accept, close your eyes to the problem and continue the relationship further, reviewing all the pros and cons.

What if the husband cheats on you and does not feel guilty? If everything is fine in a relationship, a man neverwill not seek shelter in the arms of his mistress. But sometimes a man is forced to leave for a short time in "free swimming", confronting his wife's misunderstanding and pathological jealousy. Let's see what happens in your relationship.

What if the husband changes for no reason at all? It happens that a man is fond of a woman younger and more interesting. This does not mean that you are ugly and empty, just men are rather mysterious: they constantly want to delve into women's secrets. Having found all the secrets, they lose interest, but does this end life? To return the attention of a man to himself is quite easy. If he does not stop loving you, but walks "left" for the sake of thrills, renew these thrill on his part. Do not chew yourself and think that you are worse than your mistress. Act, and do not give up. You can even go for a little trick. Ask your girlfriend to tell you quite oftenwrote SMS and called without any reason, and rename the contact's name in the phone, for example, from Alina to Oleg. Be sure, your husband will fall into a trance, realizing that with his drinking, he missed you. If he makes you a scandal over attention from the mysterious Oleg, wisely hint him that you are interesting to men. This will make your husband think. Men are only seemingly free and independent, but in fact they hold on to marriage more than women.

What to do if the husband changes, and you are not inIs there anything to do? Be sure, to do anything and not worth it. This does not mean that you should all indulge and tell your husband: "Well done, keep it up." Never make scandals and scenes of jealousy. Show courage and patience, if it is important for you to save the marriage. Indifference on your part is capable ofman at a dead end. First he will be happy that you do not interfere with his spree, but soon he will ask himself: is it so important for you, if you have never even jealous of him to a mysterious stranger, whom he relaxes.

Remember, if your husband changes, you can not keep him by anything: neither children, nor themselves, nor particularly importantlife priorities. While it does not work, you can not stop this running mechanism. What for to rattlet to itself and to it nerves? After each quarrel, he will go to his mistress, as a holiday, getting in her arms calmness and understanding. If it turns out that my husband stopped loving you, go boldly. Where love ends, there will be no point. Relations built on habit and pity are a tormenting hell. Why do you need this?

What if the husband changes and brazenly lies to you,they say, "repairing the car in the garage," "getting out of work", "met an alien and could not come to himself for a long time"? Smile mysteriously and do not listen to this nonsense. Just go about your business by showing your husband that you know something, but you are not going to discuss it.

What should I do if my husband cheats? Yes, do nothing. If it's important to keep a family, survive thisperiod is calm, be smarter and wiser. No, you do not need to be complacent and stupid. Show that you are an independent woman and can do it all yourself, without the help of her husband, who decided to spend time and energy on another. It will hit a man's self-esteem, but you will grow noticeably in his eyes. Just do not lose confidence. Remember, self-confidence is the main guarantee of success in everything, before which not only the advantages of mistresses come to light, but also ordinary everyday problems that create discomfort.