Problems with parents: parents-alcoholics

If an adult, faced with some difficulties, can navigate, how to get out of the situation, then how to be a defenseless child? What if parents -

Alcoholics?

Problems with parents. Solve together

Nowadays, millions of children live in families where parents are alcoholics. Such children feel helpless and discouraged, and to parents experience anger and resentment. Their life

like an endless nightmare. It's hard when one of the parents drinks, and what if they drink both?

Alcoholics - it's not just lovers of drinking, but already completely alcohol-dependent people. Such people absolutely change life values.

The meaning of life is seen only in alcohol. In fact, they are very sick people.

Causes of alcoholism may be different: heredity, way of life (for example, for his work a person receives "gratitude" in the form of alcohol), and maybe

mental trauma. A person gets rid of emotional experiences in the fastest way - alcohol intoxication, but this only exacerbates the problem. It turns out a vicious circle,

from which many can not get out. At the same time, all members of the family, and especially children, suffer.

Not only that in families where there are alcoholics, almost the entire family budget goes to alcohol, so also the atmosphere in the house is impregnated with quarrels, screams and fights. Children feel ashamed

bring your friends to visit. And they can not count on any support of their most native people.

The country of the Soviets appeals to the children who faced this situation. We really want to help you, and even more so, want to see your smiles and

happy eyes.

Let's try to figure it out, what to do and how to be in such a difficult case, when there are problems with parents - alcoholics.

To begin with, you must understand that alcoholism is a disease. Would you not take offense at your father if he fell ill, for example, with pneumonia? So alcoholism

- the same, only much more serious and hard.

Usually alcoholics with experience do not recognize themselves as sick, but you It is necessary to try to convince the parent of specialized treatment. Do, of course, it is necessary,

when he is sober. Describe how well you will heal when he stops drinking and is cured. Just speak kindly and with love. Find the strength in the numerous

such conversations.

It is possible that your heart is filled with anger and disgust towards the drinking parent, but you have to pull yourself together to learn to switch to

something good. Hatred destroys the soul, but you still have the whole life ahead of you.

If suddenly a house brews a fight, a drunken parent is not in the spirit, it is better to sit out this time in the yard, with friends or neighbors. Do not put your life in danger.

A drunk person is very aggressive and does not control his actions.

Important advice: do not get hung up on the problem if you do not get to change the situation in the house at the moment. Concentrate on yourself and your personal

life. Parents have chosen their own way, and in your hands - your future. Do not be angry with the whole world because you have problems with your parents. Believe me, everyone has problems,

only they are different.

Prove yourself that you can do a lot on your own. Pay attention to study, so that there was an opportunity to enter the university on a budgetary basis.

Participate in all kinds of school activities and competitions. Read books on the education of character and will. Set goals for yourself and firmly go to them.

If there is no support in the family - do not despair. There are a lot of good and sensitive people around. Try to make friends with a lot of peers. AT

If necessary, ask advice from teachers or parents of friends. Find interesting activities for yourself - sports, music, etc. Lead a healthy lifestyle - you do not need to go far

follow the example.

If this article is read by adults, and your neighbor's children have problems with parents who consume alcohol, do not be indifferent - often invite

these children to their house, talk to them, support them. In very difficult cases, apply for protection in social services, if it concerns the safety of the child.

Try to find a way out of a difficult situation together. After all, each of us has the right to happiness ...