How to get rid of love addiction
The relationship between a man and a woman is foldingdifferently. Some couples have peace, others have constant quarrels, but no one puts an end to the relationship. And the third clearly shows love affair. In this case, a woman from a man more often depends, and not vice versa. This vicious circle should be torn, so the Country of Soviets will tell you, how to get rid of love affair. Very often people confuse what they feel towards another person: love or dependence. Sometimes people think that this is love, butin fact, a simple dependence develops. At the same time, dependence can be completely different: material, emotional, sexual, or, indeed, love.
To understand how to get rid of love addiction, should be aware of the causes of this condition. Most often victims of love addiction are women who are not self-confident. Or those people who lack love because they do not love themselves, or are afraid to be abandoned.
It does not matter why you developed a love affair with a partner. It is important that the origins of the problem should be looked for only in your childhood. Psychologists perfectly know what is developinglove dependence only because of the fact that in childhood a person could survive various unpleasant moments. Lack of love of parents, improper education and even life in the shelter can be the reason for the development of love dependence.
The first step to getting rid of love addiction is awareness of one's own problem. Then you only have to act. Yes, it will be difficult, but the opportunity to forget a certain person and start living a new life is always there.
Help to get rid of love addiction professional psychologist will help you. After a few sessions you will feel,that to you it became much better. How exactly the psychologist will work - it will tell you only he. For each person should choose a specific program. But mostly psychologists use a specially derived formula, which allows you to quickly get rid of addiction. But if this does not help, then they resort to a more effective method - hypnosis. In this state, a person breaks off those fetters that tie her to a certain person.
You can also cope with love dependence on your own. But only in the event that you feel in yourselfforces to do so. Since the roots of the problem of love addiction going far into your childhood, you will have to go back there. Of course, no one has invented a time machine, so you have to do it mentally. There is a special practice, which is very similar to meditation, which allows you to reach the depths of the subconscious and find yourself there when you were a child. With this child should talk, tell him that you will always love him, protect and care. Play with the child, show your tenderness, because that's what he did not have before.
There are a couple of ways that will help you on the way to getting rid of love addiction. You can have a special diarygood memories. In it you should write down all those moments in life when you feel happy. But this diary should contain those joyful emotions and sensations that you are experiencing now, and not those that were before.
You can also try to imagine what will be the person you love, in 20-30 years. Imagine his character, habits, appearance. It is possible that this will not be the person you fell in love with.
And do not forget to cheer yourself up all the time. Go to relax with friends, socialize with new people, find a new hobby. Try to live life to the fullest. You realize that you can live without the person you depend on.
